Welcome to Positively Inspired Co-Parenting, a co-parenting support platform built on real-life experience, compassion, and a deep commitment to the well-being of children and families.

We are Rick Hartley and Sai Gonzalez Silva, co-parents who successfully transitioned from a separated couple to partners in raising our twin boys through a model we created called Proximity Parenting. This forward-thinking approach emphasizes creating stability and normalcy for children by living in close proximity to one another, even after separation or divorce. Although this approach may not work for everyone, for us, this has meant sharing the same home as roommates to ensure our boys have the love, support, and structure they need to thrive.

Our Story

Our journey began much like many others who face the challenges of divorce and co-parenting. Early on, Rick sought the help of a therapist, which allowed him to address personal challenges and move forward. Years later, after successfully navigating co-parenting, we sat down and mapped out what had made us successful, realizing that we had created a completely new relationship centered on our children. This process led to the development of our "Create a New Relationship" model, which we now use to help other parents.

By focusing on the needs of our children and setting aside our personal grievances, we’ve been able to build a strong, cooperative relationship that has benefited our family in countless ways. Today, we live in alignment with the Proximity Parenting Model, providing our boys with a stable and supportive environment. Our twin sons, who have been accepted into highly gifted programs, are a testament to how effective cooperative parenting can be when the focus is on the children's success and well-being.

Our Mission

At Positively Inspired Co-Parenting, we are passionate about helping other parents achieve the same level of cooperation and peace that we’ve worked so hard to cultivate. Our mission is simple: to empower parents to transition from conflict to cooperation by creating new relationships that benefit their children’s mental health, emotional stability, and long-term success. We believe that co-parenting doesn't have to be a battle – it can be a partnership built on mutual respect, communication, and love for the children.

What We Offer

We offer a variety of courses, coaching, and resources designed to guide parents through the often challenging transition from separation or divorce to cooperative co-parenting. Our programs are built around the Create a New Relationship model, helping parents move past old grievances and start fresh in their role as co-parents.

Through one-on-one coaching, Group Coaching, online courses, and practical tools, we aim to equip parents with the strategies, emotional regulation techniques, and frameworks necessary to foster a healthy co-parenting dynamic. Whether you're dealing with an uncooperative ex-partner, struggling to set boundaries, or simply trying to find common ground, we are here to help.

Why Work With Us?

What sets us apart is that we’ve been where you are. We know the heartache, frustration, and challenges of navigating a separation with children involved. But we also know that it is possible to build something better – something that provides a solid foundation for your children while allowing both parents to move forward with their lives.

Our programs are not based on theory alone – they are the result of years of lived experience, trial and error, and, most importantly, success. We also bring professional backgrounds in law, psychology, and child development, giving us a comprehensive understanding of what families need both emotionally and legally.